{"id":721,"date":"2017-02-09T18:41:04","date_gmt":"2017-02-09T18:41:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/?p=721"},"modified":"2017-02-09T22:36:26","modified_gmt":"2017-02-09T22:36:26","slug":"crushin-60","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/?p=721","title":{"rendered":"Crushin\u2019 60!!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For the past months I have been dreading my birthday with a feeling of totally denial and depression.<br \/>\nI just couldn\u2019t get my head around the approaching number.<br \/>\nI seemed daunting and depressive.<br \/>\nIt felt incredibly old.<\/p>\n<p>But I have now made it to that number.<br \/>\nIn fact I am now 3 weeks older and I am absolutely rocking life.<br \/>\nI am loving where I am at.<br \/>\nIt\u2019s a fabulous place to be.<\/p>\n<p>I never planned a party, discouraged any form of celebration<br \/>\nJust wanted to be in total denial<br \/>\nBut now&#8230;.<br \/>\nI have moved my mindset into a much more positive direction.<\/p>\n<p>Life is just one big party and I plan to continue it on for months<br \/>\nMaybe even till the next number rolls around \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>I have felt\u00a0incredibly cherished &amp; honoured\u00a0by all the greetings sent to me from all over the world.<br \/>\nIt has really made me realise and appreciate how much love there is<br \/>\nThank you everyone &#8211;\u00a0each and everyone of my\u00a0precious friends\u00a0I hold you close in my heart and treasure you all.<br \/>\nI look back on my years and love how much I have been blessed by so many people<br \/>\nNo matter how long the season that you were part of\u00a0my life you\u00a0have wedged yourselves\u00a0firmly into my heart<br \/>\nFriendship is\u00a0indeed the privilege and joy\u00a0of a long life<\/p>\n<p>Just to prove that I am weathering the storm of age relatively well at this point Eilidh took a few birthday photos.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-725\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3419-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3419-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3419.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-726\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3421-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3421-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3421.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-728\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3441-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3441-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3441.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-729\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3443-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3443-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3443.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-727\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3434-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3434-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3434-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3434.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>My celebration\u00a0began gently with a lovely lunch for two with Renata at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.boatshedcafe.co.nz\">The Boatshed<\/a>.<br \/>\nPerfect<br \/>\nAll I could cope with on the day<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-732\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-731\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3454-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3454-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3454.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-732\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3459.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nI then slept the rest of my\u00a0day away.<\/p>\n<p>The next day however I was fully recovered &#8211; well nearly&#8230;.<br \/>\nAnd I hit the ground running &#8211; well almost &#8211; with the help of some Panadine \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>We started the party with lunch at Lambrettas with Martin &amp; Sylvia.<br \/>\nAzzan was able to join us which was wonderful.<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-736\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3489-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3489-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3489-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3489.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nSarah &amp; Eilidh made up the rest of the party.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-733\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3482-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3482-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3482.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-734\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3483-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3483-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3483.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-735\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3484-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3484-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3484.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>After lunch Sarah &amp; I took ourselves off to the movies.<br \/>\nSaw \u2018<a href=\"http:\/\/www.whiskygaloremovie.com\">Whiskey Galore<\/a>\u2019 &#8211; great movie.<br \/>\nLots of laughs and a few tears.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn&#8217;t allowed to wear my corset\u00a0to lunch!<br \/>\nAzzan reckons I&#8217;m having a midlife crisis<br \/>\nAnd that the words &#8216;sexy mama&#8217; shouldn&#8217;t be used in the same sentence<br \/>\nLove my lad\u00a0<span class=\"_5mfr _47e3\"><span class=\"_7oe\">&#x1f602;<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-741\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3480-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3480-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3480.jpg 576w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 85vw, 225px\" \/><\/span><\/span><br \/>\nSo I had to come home and put it on later for evening attire\u00a0&#8211; when it was apparently more appropriate.<br \/>\nAzzan thinks it&#8217;s too much for Nelson. He often thinks I&#8217;m too much for Nelson\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"img\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/images\/emoji.php\/v7\/f6f\/2\/16\/1f602.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"16\" height=\"16\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And on that note Eilidh, Sarah and I hit the big town of Nelson and started our evening out at the Sprig &amp; Fern.<br \/>\nOn Sarah\u2019s recommendation we attacked a bottle of\u00a0Giesen Classic Cuve\u00e9<br \/>\nIt went down extremely well<br \/>\nI\u2019ve never been a wine drinker, but under the expert tutelage of Renata. Eddie &amp; Sarah I am beginning to find a few I enjoy.<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-743\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3495-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3495-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3495-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3495.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-744\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3498-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3498-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3498-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3498.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next stop was the cinema<br \/>\nWe had booked to see\u00a0&#8216;Collateral Beauty\u2019<br \/>\nIt was a really lovely movie<br \/>\nShoshannah was convinced I should\u2019ve shed a few tears\u00a0during it but I didn\u2019t &#8211; sorry Shanni<br \/>\nI found it intriguing, fascinating, moving and thought provoking.<br \/>\nThe best thing of all was we got to have chocolate dipped ice cream<br \/>\nIsn\u2019t that the absolute best thing about attending a movie \ud83d\ude09<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-745\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3511-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3511-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3511-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3511.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It was a bit of a wet murky night so we opted to pop around the corner and suss out Rhythm &amp; Brown<br \/>\nDiscovered that &#8216;Not Bruce Willis\u2019 was playing so ordered ourselves a cheese board and some glasses of ros\u00e9 and chilled for a while.<br \/>\nThere was a lovely relaxing vibe\u00a0going on so we rolled with it<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-746\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3517-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3517-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3517-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3517.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-747\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3527-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3527-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3527-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3527.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Later in\u00a0the\u00a0night we went for a wander down the street to suss out what else was happening in town.<br \/>\nWe were making\u00a0it our business to find as much live music as we could.<br \/>\nFinal bar of the night &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vicbrewbar.co.nz\">Vic Brew Bar<\/a><br \/>\nListened to &#8216;Jack in the Box\u2019 until the end of the night<br \/>\nThey were great<br \/>\nSaint Clair\u2019s Gew\u00fcrztraminer with hot fries was a perfect ending to the night<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-754\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3540-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3540-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3540-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3540.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><br \/>\nEilidh was fascinated with the lights &#8211; they do have some pretty funky lighting in there!!<br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-755\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3544-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3544-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3544-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3544.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-756\" src=\"http:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3545-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3545-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3545-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/IMG_3545.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>All in all a wonderful evening<br \/>\nLoads of laughs<br \/>\nGood company<br \/>\nThe beginning of many more celebratory occasions&#8230;&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For the past months I have been dreading my birthday with a feeling of totally denial and depression. I just couldn\u2019t get my head around the approaching number. I seemed daunting and depressive. It felt incredibly old. But I have now made it to that number. In fact I am now 3 weeks older and &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/?p=721\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Crushin\u2019 60!!&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[41,33,31,23,21,54,32,28,45,1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/721"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=721"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/721\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":759,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/721\/revisions\/759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mybigballofstring.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}